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29 Nov 2007, 7:21 pm / Other
Who in life has not experienced the disappointment of a fading love? Some are short lived and others are from long term relationships; regardless the length someone is devastated & heartbroken. Sometimes it is even expected. I have to ask, are past relationships a catalyst to whom we are to be with? A stepping stone on the path to building our character or is it simply our own free will and a bad choice on our part? Why is it that after several years one wakes one morning and looks at the love in their life and decides they are no longer enough? Or that even though their love is devoted to them they need or desire the affections of another? And for that matter why it was never communicated before taking up with another? Suddenly when things are going bad in their new found release, why then is it so important to communicate this issue and then expect the once love of their life to just accept it and go on like nothing has occurred; no change, no apologies, no wanting of forgiveness – just forget about it and let’s move forward form here? I don’t have the answer for any of those conundrums. I do know it has been expected from a great many of us though. You have to love yourself enough to be strong for yourself, listening to your heart whether to renew a love or to even let your heart love again. You have to decide you are deserving of someone who will understand you, love you and treat you like you know you deserve to be treated.
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